Imagine the scenario, you have had a tough week at work, and a colleague invites you out. It is the weekend, and you think to yourself that you are not doing anything worthwhile or worth denying yourself some entertainment this weekend, so you say to your friend "why not"? You dress elegantly, choosing those shirts, trousers and shoes you only ponder to wear on special occasions, with the aftershave you received as a gift from a female that you are sure will make the female audience come that little bit closer, you check your breath and pop a fresh mint in your mouth just in case, and look yourself over in the mirror to ensure you are right for hitting the town.
You visit a well mannered club, where you enjoy the music and the atmosphere, you relax taking in your surroundings, maybe tap your foot to a nostalgic song, or just to fit in with the crowd who seem heavily into the music, and then you spot her. She is the girl of your dreams, drop dead gorgeous from head to toe, immaculate in every way (well according to you).
You wonder if she will be interested in you at all, if you make a move, suppose she's already spoken for? Suppose one of the people in the group of guys she is talking with is her date for the night, or worse her boyfriend or husband? So what do you do? You convince yourself that such a drop dead gorgeous girl would have had a line of suitors by now, as they say pretty girls are never lonely.
So you never take that chance, you let that opportunity pass you by, gone with the wind, lost for all time, never to relive that moment again, as they say all we have to remember life by are the things we do, or in this case have the bravado to do.
The next opportunity that presents itself, you equally dismiss, like a tennis player who loses a match after winning the first two sets and serving at match point, those painful memories can easily keep affecting the mindset and so it is in this scenario, as the saying goes, once bitten twice as shy, your mindset has already been bitten, and you feel you have lost that confidence you had for what seemed like a lifetime ago when you stepped out, assured that tonight will be the night; now you feel that you don't stand a chance, and it goes on and on, until you wonder why you never meet the woman of your dreams, when every one that passes by you, you dismiss as out of your league by one reason or another, a defeatist attitude such as this is the biggest drawback to meeting someone you could have a meaningful relationship with.
Repeated actions can only give the same result, if you want to change and develop the confidence to approach any woman, then it starts with breaking the ice, by understanding the scenario, and how to go about with your chat up line. Initial impressions define how a job interview will go, and it is the same with speaking to people especially in the relationship sense.
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