It is very important that as you move through your daily life you appreciate the fact that disabled people are just like you and I. While they have extra challenges in their lives, they still enjoy the same things you and I do, and a good celebration is no exception! It is very possible for you to plan your party and include those with disabilities without too much extra work.
The first thing you can do when you are planning a party is to plan on inviting your handicapped friends and family to the event. Do not let the disabilities and requirements scare you away from inviting them. Since you know these people and their family and friends you can tap into that resources by enquiring what special arrangements or diets have to be made. This alone will make them realize that you are sensitive to their situation and will make them feel included and special. In addition, they will have respect for the fact that you asked the questions, many people don’t bother to .
The next thing you can do is to take a second to view your residence as other people will who attend your celebration . Try sitting down in a chair, or sitting on the floor, and have a good look around. Is there anything blocking easy access to certain spots? Can these be moved temporarily. This is specially important in tighter spaces such as bathrooms and hallways. Look for tripping hazards like stairs and see if you can highlight them better to make sure that even your visually impaired granny can see them and be able to navigate them without falling down.
If you would like to invite someone to your celebration with a more physical disability, ask them if there is someone they would like to bring along as their caregiver . Many people will be happy that you asked and were considerate of the fact that they may need someone available to help them. Many people need help in places like the restroom, and would prefer to have someone there they trust and can feel comfortable around .
You may even want to invite the person around before the party, you can then both discuss issues etc making the day easier for both of you.
The best thing you can ever do when entertaining is to invite those around you with disabilities. particularly during the holiday season, people can be very lonely and it only takes a nice gesture such as an invitation to a celebration to start to feel better about yourself and your situation. If you feel uncomfortable about the individual’s disability, then try talking to them about what issues they face and what things you can do to make their stay nicer at your house. Through some simple communication, both you and your handicapped acquaintances and family members can have some great event memories to share.