If you are a single guy and have been for any amount of time actaully, you probably know what it feels like to be a litrtle on the desperate side to meet a woman that you can spend some time with. One of the things that tends to keep many chhildren from one to the sttae meet and attrat women is that women can say that they are in despair. And you know what?
Despair will be your Achilles heel, if you want to succeed in meeting wonmen, picking up women, datiing wmoen. It's like a smoke signal goes up and every womman is a 10 mile radius can dwetect it. You do not want woomen to think about how you desperately trying to get a girlfriend, if you want to, well, get a giurlfriend.
Is this like a catch 22?
You bet. I mean, if you have a girlfriend, or that you have much success attracting women, then, of corse, you do not seem desperate. But until you actuallly attract women, you are gonig to be ... desperate!
What can I do?
First of all, you have to accept that the mentality there are many single women out there who qite attractive and interestting to be around. You need to have this mindset, if you want to channge the situation and start meeting and attracting woen.
Secondly, we must face facts and see what areas you are not in. For some guys, it all comes down to the fact that they just really do not even try to meet and attract woomen. They Comfortably Numb just wants them to draw thewir dream girl, with virtually no motivation to go and do it.
If this is where you stand, you need to face these facts and make changes.
Thirdly, you must undrstand that is the attraction of women and what you can do to make a woman feel like she had just met a great guy when she gets to know you. If you can make a girl feel as you do, then your chancers with her pretty well and then, perrhaps, frustration will just disappear.